- Smiling
- Humor
- Caring
- Listening
- Joy
- Thankfulness
- Kindness
1. Smiling
The first way to manifest abundance is through smiling. An anonymous author wrote the following in a brief article titled "SMILE":“A smile costs nothing but it gives much.”If you have ever worked in a country where you do not know the language, you quickly learn how welcome a smile is. It is a universal language in itself because we can communicate our happiness by smiling at anyone we meet. The anonymous author then wrote, “A smile brings rest to the weary, cheer to the discouraged, sunshine to the sad, and it is nature’s best antidote for trouble.” Your smile may be the best gift that someone will receive all day. Finally, they wrote, “A smile cannot be bought, begged, borrowed, or stolen for it is of no value until it is given away.” You are the architect of your smile, and you can give it away as often as you like. Your smile can be your calling card.
2. Humor
Humor leads to smiles and laughter. In his article, Leading with Humor, Allison Beard wrote, “Working adults are in the midst of a laughter drought.”((Harvard Business Review: Leading with Humor)) He followed that with a very surprising statistic, “Babies laugh on the average 400 times a day; people over 35, only 15.” You can use humor and laughter to bring people closer together and dissipate pressure and stress. In his book, Instant Replay: The Green Bay Diary of Jerry Kramer, Jerry Kramer cited an incident where his coach accomplished both bringing his team together and dissipating pressure. Vince Lombardi, a very tough and demanding coach for the Green Bay Packers, fined two of his star players for missing curfew. The atmosphere was intense because he announced the fine in front of the entire team. Lombardi then told the two players that if they missed curfew again, he would raise the fine to an exorbitant level. After reflecting on the cost of that next fine, Lombardi told the culprits that if they could find a place to go for that high of a fine to call him and he would go with them! Lombardi never got the call.3. Caring
Another way to manifest abundance is through caring. My son Pat was young when he used the expression, “who’s cares.” I don’t think he knew what it meant, but he tended to use it for every question. Who does care? Well, people with abundance do care. You may want to consider what two different men said about the idea of caring: John Maxwell, a prolific writer on leadership, wrote, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.” You certainly show you care when you help others. Albert Einstein validated that when he wrote, “I can think of no other reason why we are here but to help others.” When you care for others, you not only help them but also—as research validates St. Francis of Assisi’s belief—when you give, you also receive. Recent research found that when you care for another, you receive or experience the following:((Caregiver Stress: The Many Benefits of Caring for Others))- feeling good
- feeling a sense of accomplishment
- feeling loved and building strong relationships
- feeling valuable and experiencing personal growth
4. Listening
You probably have heard of the expression, “God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason.” Two corollaries to that adage are:- “Big egos have little ears.” —Reverend Robert Schuller
- “Be a good listener. Your ears will never get you in trouble.” —Frank Tyger
5. Joy
How would you define joy? It may be one of those things that are difficult to define, but you know them when you see them. Thomas N. Hooper, in his article “The Power of Joy”, had this insight:We cannot wait for circumstances to bring joy; we must make our own joy and let it act upon circumstances. Joy is a good influence in any situation, and there are many ways we can bring joy - with positive thoughts, pleasant words, a smile, even by using our sense of humor.”The good news in his definition is that you can create joy. You can bring joy regardless of the circumstances. Everyone experienced joy when they interacted with coach Jack Hermanski. His circumstances were neither good nor happy because he had Multiple Sclerosis, but he stayed active all day because he taught Special Education, serving ten different schools in his school district, and worked as a basketball coach on our university staff. He had the ability to bring joy every day. He willed himself to bring it. When you saw him, you felt his joy. One Friday, he met one of his students who was in a wheelchair. The boy told the coach he was glad it was Friday. Jack then asked him if he had big plans for the weekend. The boy said, "No coach Jack. I am glad because you come here on Fridays." You may not be able to define joy, but you saw it when you were with coach Jack. Can you work at bringing joy? Like Jack, you will lighten the lives of those with whom you interact.
6. Thankfulness
Are you thankful for all that has been bestowed upon you? Thankfulness—or gratitude—is the most common way to manifest abundance. Some people believe we need to say only one prayer, "thank you." People with abundance take saying "thank you" to another level, which you may consider doing in your work. A historian once taught that the United States was not built by famous politicians nor the wealthy of our country. He taught that the common man, the "nobodies," built America. The people in any business or organization who are in the trenches are often forgotten. The top executives are thanked and rewarded for their work. But the people who are making the organizations successful—the secretaries, the people on the assembly line, and the truck drivers—tend to be overlooked. People with abundance don’t make the above mistake. They make it their priority to thank those who get little or no recognition. They thank the "nobodies." The players in athletics who sit on the bench are the nobodies. A team can be having a great season and as the starters are walking the campus, many people are congratulating them. As the bench players are walking the campus, many people don’t even know they are on the team. The former Marquette basketball coach, Al McGuire, had this insight. He never worried about the players on the bench because when they were in their forties, they were vice-presidents, presidents, and CEOs of companies. They knew how to work for a little glory. However, he did worry about the stars when they were in their forties because no one was slapping them on the back, carrying their bags, and telling them how great they are. Do you take the time to thank the nobodies?7. Kindness
We all cannot be rich. We all cannot be famous. We all cannot be surrounded by praise and adulation, but we all can be kind. Kindness is defined as the quality of being friendly, generous, and considerate. You can practice kindness in many ways. Here are a few:- When you see someone in need, you can reach out.
- When you see someone hospitalized, you can visit.
- When someone in your organization has success, you can send them a hand-written note.
- When all those around you are gossiping, you can refuse to participate.
Do your little bit of good where you are. It’s those bits of good put together, that overwhelm the world. —Desmond Tutu
Kindness is a language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. —Mark Twain
My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness. —Dalai Lama XIVDon’t forget the acts of kindness that you have received. Instead, consider offering this gift to others.
Final Thoughts
To recap everything I wrote, just remember the 7 ways you can manifest abundance:- Smiling - make your smile your calling card.
- Humor – bring people together and dissipate stress with humor.
- Caring - people don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.
- Listening - your ears won’t get you in trouble.
- Joy - you know it when you see it.
- Thankfulness - thank those who get little or no recognition.
- Kindness - we can all be kind.
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